Showing posts with label Pride. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pride. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

Firsts and Lasts

Tomorrow is the first ever #NanaimoPrideWeek, not only is it the first week, it's the first ever public event to recognize diversity and equality in our city.

I watched a beautiful video this morning of the crosswalk being painted. Community members stood conversing and recording this historical event. The spokesperson for the Nanaimo Pride Society spoke about diversity and inclusivity. He spoke about community, support and family friendly events.

This was a far cry from the stereotype we see portrayed in the media.


I was struck with excitement and also a little fear. Would the rainbow remain untarnished from vandals and nay-sayers until the conclusion of the events on Sunday? I'm praying for love to win the day as people choose to either participate or remain silent.

This next week is not about the "gay agenda",  it's about equal rights to be as human as anyone else. I once watched a TED talk about the gay agenda. I cannot remember who was speaking, but his words stuck with me:


"What is the gay agenda? As a gay person, I would like to know. I don't wake up in the morning and have my gay coffee, my gay breakfast and drive my gay car to my gay job."

If I had to put this hypothetical agenda into words, I wouldn't suggest that LGBTQ people are trying to make everyone, everywhere, in everything queer. We're trying to make it so that people don't have to come out anymore.

Wouldn't it be great if youth stopped taking their own lives because they no longer have to choose between a half-life or a lie? Wouldn't it be great if weddings were about love and not about politics or religious legalism? (I could go on about this, but I won't, maybe another time). Wouldn't it be nice to go to the bathroom without someone checking your genitalia?

How about eating in a cafe? Wouldn't it be great to be treated like a human instead of a disease? It would be great if not every conversation was about who you do or don't sleep with, I mean do straight people get asked about their sex life (or lack there of) by any well meaning concerned citizen?

Fact is, people in civilized society are being refused medical treatment, hospitality, services, funding, protection and insurance--to name a few. Pride week isn't about making out with a pink pixie and tie dyeing your poodle--it's about saying "we exist, we're human, do something about it."

On this first Pride Week celebration, I am looking forward to the day when I can share with my loved ones "and that was the last time it was legal to hurt a person for who they love."

"That was the last time I was afraid to bring my boyfriend/girlfriend home to meet my parents."

"That was the last time the church fired their youth pastor/worship leader."

"That was the last time fear spoke louder than love."

Friday, June 3, 2016

Hot Topic : The Use of the Word Homosexual in the Bible

As you might imagine, I've been receiving many emails, messages and questions asking how I interpret the verses in scripture that condemn homosexuality.

Rather than speak from my point of view, I would like to provide readers with the same information I read and allow them to come to their own conclusions.

 I believe that we are all responsible for our own theology and faith --and it would be a great disservice to only know one way of thinking before weighing the evidence.


Our Spirit Now addresses what are widely known as "the clobber passages" among LGBTQ Christians. These are the verses in scripture that are translated in English containing the word homosexual or homosexuality.



"Where in the Bible you might find the word homosexual used incorrectly:
  • The Hebrew word kedah means temple prostitute and is sometimes inaccurately translated at sodomite or homosexual.
  • In 1 Corinthians, sodomite or homosexual are sometimes used, but they are incorrect translations of the Greek malakos which means something closer to effeminate or the Greek practice of pederastywhich is older men having sex with boys and is not consensual gay sex between peers.
  • 1 Corinthians also refers in Greek to arsenokaitai, which appears nowhere else in the Bible or in Greek writings about homoerotic sexuality, but probably means male prostitute.
  • Jude 7 sometimes refers to homosexual flesh that the Sodomites pursued.  This is an inaccurate translation of hetera sarx which means, literally, strange flesh to describe the flesh of the angels who were sent by God to evaluate Sodom and Gomorrah.
  • In Timothy 1:9-10, translators sometimes use homosexual for the original Greek words, pornoi, arsenokoitai, and andrapodistai, meaning male prostitutesmales who hire male prostitutes or the slave dealers who procure them."
Taken from www.ourspiritnow.org, Friday , June 3, 2016.

For me, one of the interesting things to consider was the lack of examples of same sex sex outside of prostitution, idolatry, sexual abuse of minors or slavery. It also came as a surprise to me that the word homosexual didn't exist at the time of English translations. It was coined in 1869 by Dr. Karoly Benkert by combining the Greek term "homo" for same and the Latin "sexual". It was after his studies in the field that translations started to have the word included. 


Equip.org states:

"Theologian Mel White agrees that the Greek word arsenokoitai, used for “homosexual” in 1Corinthians 6:9, seems to refer to same-sex behavior. He argues that Greek scholars don’t know exactly what it means, however, and that this simple detail is a big part of this tragic debate.
He explains, “Some scholars believe Paul was coining a name to refer to customers of ‘the effeminate call boys.’ We might call them ‘dirty old men.’ Others translate the word as ‘sodomites,’ but never explain what that means.”
According to White, in 1958, a translator for the New Amplified Bible set historical precedent by translating this “mysterious” Greek word into English as the word “homosexuals,” even though no such word exists in either Greek or Hebrew. It was that translator, according to White, who “placed the word homosexual in the English-language Bible for the very first time.”
White blames this bad translation for the inability of many NT scholars today to make the proper, culturally relevant application of this passage in 1Corinthians. He adds, “In the past, people used Paul’s writings to oppress women and limit their role in the home, in church, and in society. Now we have to ask ourselves, ‘Is it happening again? Is a word in Greek that has no clear definition being used to reflect society’s prejudice and condemn God’s gay children?'”

Mel White is also a Christian minister and filmmaker, who describes how he reconciles his homosexuality with his Christian faith in his book Stranger at the Gate: To Be Gay and Christian in America (New York: Plume Books, 1994).

The reason I like this particular article is it shows the translation process and before concluding mentions that Paul was likely referring to Leviticus when speaking to the Corinthians. They also note that "nothing in 1Corinthians, or for that matter in any other biblical writing, speaks directly of the biological or psychological condition of homosexuality or homosexual ‘orientation’ as this is understood today and as it concerns believing Christian gay persons intent on worshipping and serving God." (Theologian John H. Elliott, Professor Emeritus of Theology and Religious Studies at the University of San Francisco.)
While Equip is not in favour of LGBTQ Christians, its researchers do understand where the argument is coming from. It's important to note that scholars are debating these issues trying to reconcile science, psychology, culture, history and theology while millions of people are navigating the tense waters in the meantime. 
gaychurch.org does a great job of presenting the inclusive argument. By focussing on the main passages Rev. Justin Cannon gives a detailed reasoning for his stance. I recommend anyone who wishes to seriously understand what inclusive affirming churches believe to read the Rev's research. 
I think it's unfair to assume that because someone professes Jesus and identifies as LGBTQ, they would automatically know all these arguments. I didn't know about the deity of Christ when I received him as saviour and Lord, I didn't know about creation, or the flood, or baptism or the Holy Spirit. All of these things I needed to study. Think carefully before engaging in debate with one another, give space and time for reflection and above all don't attack someone with your point of view (or mine for that matter) and say you're doing it in love. Love is patient, love is kind, it is not self seeking, it keeps no records of wrongs ect. (1 Corinthians 13).

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

It's Pride Month: The Need for Rainbow Spam

As you've probably noticed, your newsfeed is filling up with Pride flags, coming out stories, controversial bathroom hate crimes and cheeky memes about being a unicorn. 

As an ally, or impartial person --you know one who considers themselves tolerant but doesn't like to take sides--you're likely to be annoyed or even grow numb to the sentiment behind these posts.

The fact that Pride Month Celebrations can be annoying is the reason we need them.

If it were Hunger Awareness, Cancer Awareness, Autism Awareness, Heritage Month, or any other issue not pertaining to sexuality--would the reaction be the same?


I've been speaking out actively to those close to me why it's important for me, as a Christian, to be involved in this year's Pride activities. My city is having it's first Pride Festival and when I mentioned that it would be from a Wednesday to a Sunday--the audible eye roll went around the table like the wave at a football game.

In that moment I felt small, I felt foolish and I felt dirty. This is why we need Pride Month. 

Pride isn't about promiscuity, it isn't about sexualization, it isn't about getting drunk and having a techno dance party in the street in our underwear --it's about acceptance, love and integrity. In a culture where someone can get the audible eye roll for attending an event that celebrates and encourages marginalized people (which by the way--Jesus spent 95% of his ministry with marginalized people)--this month is important.

Instead of getting annoyed, why not engage. First, ask yourself why you're uncomfortable. Annoyance is just the polite version of anger. Why are you angry that people are fighting for acceptance? 

Second, engage with your friends. Ask your friend why that post is so important for them. Explain that you want to understand the importance but that you're having a tough time. Hear some firsthand stories about how LGBTQ people are dehumanized daily and why it needs to stop regardless of personal or religious convictions. 



Above all listen to your mom: if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all.